Midlife gets called a crisis far too quickly. Change your career. Question a relationship. Become less available. Stop wanting what you worked years to achieve. Care less about being understood. Suddenly, people assume something has gone wrong. But what if nothing has gone wrong? What if you finally have enough evidence to see where your life is no longer accurate? The job still works, but no longer fits. The friendship has history, but not much present. The role everyone knows you for has become exhausting to perform. The goal is still impressive, but you no longer want the life attached to it. That is not always an identity crisis. Sometimes it is an accuracy crisis.