For most of human history, marriage was not primarily about love. It was a social, economic, and family institution designed to provide stability, continuity, and support. Today, however, we expect marriage to deliver romance, friendship, emotional fulfillment, financial security, co-parenting, personal growth, and lifelong happiness, often all from a single person.
A toxic job. An unhappy marriage. A dream postponed for years. Most people assume they stay because they lack options. The truth may be more uncomfortable. We often remain in situations we have outgrown because certainty feels safer than freedom.
Today is my 45th birthday. The age that seemed impossibly distant when I was twenty. At 20, I thought people in their forties had life figured out. I thought they knew what they were doing. I thought confidence arrived automatically with age. Back then, I thought life moved in straight lines. Study hard. Work hard.... Continue Reading →
Ranking at 126th spot, India has managed to park itself at the bottom of the World Happiness Report 2023. This raises the obvious question in my mind "Why are Indians so unhappy?"
