Being easy to live with is a strength until flexibility becomes your permanent role. This essay looks at the hidden cost of chronic accommodation in relationships, work, family, and everyday life.
At 45, I Have Fewer Answers, Better Questions, and Much Better Boundaries
Today is my 45th birthday. The age that seemed impossibly distant when I was twenty. At 20, I thought people in their forties had life figured out. I thought they knew what they were doing. I thought confidence arrived automatically with age. Back then, I thought life moved in straight lines. Study hard. Work hard.... Continue Reading →
